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Ever wonder...

• where that playful, sparkling, sexy woman went?
• when your life got so routine?
• when you lost your Self?
• where the joy went?
• what happened to the PASSION?

Relax, you are not alone. In fact, you are one of the millions of women who ask themselves these questions everyday!

Has your love life disintegrated into resentment and loneliness that leaves you thinking, "Is this it?"

It's time to get honest...does your relationship suffer from any of these telltale signs of romantic rut?

If you recognize one or more of these common warning signs, your love life has probably become a snooze fest.

The good news is that you don't have to settle for a lack luster love life... you can easily turn it around in just 30 days.

It's time to rock your relationship with a new, fabulous, fun and seductive attitude. And when you do you will:

If you want to get the "Sparkle" back in your relationship and glide thru life as the charmed enchantress you were born to be, come PLAY WITH ME...

Discover How to Find & Own Your Playful, Sparkling, Sexy Self! Is a 4-week TelePlayshop starting October 30th - All you need is a telephone ­ you don't have to go anywhere.

To find out more...go here!

Everyone is Committed to Something

October 16th, 2014

Everyone is committed to something.

But the BIG question is are you committed to a life that supports you or that sabotages you?

Here’s the deal…not many people would say they are committed to a life that sabotages them yet their desires and dreams always seem to be just out of reach.

Watch this video to discover 3 easy steps to
manifest your dreams and strengthen your commitments!

P.S. I always like to help people like you reach ultimate success
and access more happiness. If after watching the video you’d like me to help tweak your clarity and commitment then click here.

How to Bring on the Happy!

October 2nd, 2014

Last weekend I hiked to the top of Skull Rock Ridge with a new hiking group (getting a jump start on Halloween LOL). A bit challenging with a 1,500 foot elevation gain in 2 miles but spectacular views of the Santa Monica Bay once sitting atop the skull.

I had a blast and it lead me to share this message with you.

We are now officially at the beginning of the last quarter of the year…I invite you to do a quick check-in. How happy are you and are you making time to live into a higher vision for your life?

In the beginning of the year I had a dream to be of greater service – in the video below I share how that played out, what I learned and what I was inspired to do.

I’m sharing this with you because I want this for YOU…to live a bigger life. And it is soooo possible for you!

Here are a few key questions that can help you find your next calling in life to have more fun and open your heart.

1) What lights you up?
2) Why is it important for you to engage in whatever lights you up?
3) How would you show up if you were doing what lights you up? How would you be different than you are currently?

Answer these questions and then book a time with me to go over this new vision and I’ll show you a plan to make it happen.

This will hold you accountable to do it so don’t miss the scheduling link if you want this plan to happen!
It’s your life and it’s worth playing into…I promise!

3 Crucial Steps to Get Unstuck

September 25th, 2014

I’d be willing to bet many of you fabulous gals reading this are tired of suffering, tired of feeling stuck and just plain old sick and tired of living in the past and letting your ex monopolize your mind. If this speaks to you, this video is right up your alley!

In the video below you will learn how a new life IS possible! I share the 3 steps I used to let go of the past and get out of my rut. These are the same steps I give my private clients to create a successful sparkling life. They work for them, they’ll work for you:))



If you are sick and tired of suffering and want my help to let go of the past click here to book some time with me.

5 Mistakes That Could End Your Relationship

September 17th, 2014

5 Mistakes that Lead to DivorceAre you asking yourself, how did it get to this point? Especially since the day you got married it seemed like you had the world at your feet! Weren’t you so full of hope and excitement for the future? Seriously how often have you seen an engaged couple head to the alter with anything less than enthusiasm, bubbling with expectation of their happily ever after?

So, what happens when the honeymoon phase is over?

After having countless conversations and coaching many people who find themselves in less than desirable circumstances in their marriages and/or partnerships – wondering how they got there ( at one time myself included) – I discovered this is a pretty common scenario.

The divorce rate in America is 40-50% for first timers and even higher for those giving it another go. So many couples unknowingly make mistakes that lead to the dissolution of love.
Are you making a relationship mistake that will lead to divorce?

Read the full article here

What to do when you are STRESSED OUT

September 11th, 2014

imagesDo you ever feel like you just can’t catch a break? I’m not talking a day or two here or there – I mean weeks, months, maybe even years.

I get it – since April it seems like it’s been Mr. Toads Wild Ride – lots of health issues with my dad, rifts with my sisters, searching for a new home, de-cluttering and prepping for my move, my aunt passing, coming home from the funeral to find a beehive the size of a football field in the backyard, fever blisters up the ying-yang, the beautiful teacher I sponsored in Liberia dying a sad and untimely death at 33, business expansion – you name it, it’s happened LOL. But you know what? It’s really just life.

Sometimes it rains and sometimes it pours and sometimes it’s like a tsunami coming at you – very rarely is it just peaceful.

So how do you create that peace in the chaos? How do you follow your truth no matter what? Stay on track with your vision?

Not surprising, the best way I’ve found to balance it all out and get back to your center is to have FUN!!! Make plans to frolic, dance, bike, hike, travel, explore, laugh and have sexy rendez-vous’s, fun flirty escapades, and new adventures in your life. You will de-stress pronto!

Harvard did a study that showed 50% of people live in the past or future – dwelling on negative emotions/experiences or anxious and fearful about what’s to come. It was concluded that these wandering minds are unhappy minds.

Play researcher Stuart Brown, MD, says, “Play quiets our busy minds, putting a stop to our constant barrage of thoughts about the past and future.” To see how this works stop reading for a moment – put all your focus and concentration into one big happy smile. Pretty impossible to have a negative thought, right?

Dr. Mark Beeman at Northwestern University did another interesting study. He found that people are able to solve a puzzle quicker after watching a short comedy clip. Tension is released when having fun and this activates neuronal connections helping for greater mental creativity and flexibility. When your mind is open it empowers you to deal with stressful situations and problem solve successfully.

All the studies showed how much more harmonious your life becomes when you engage in a good time.

In addition here are 5 more benefits to having FUN:

  1. Fun ignites the diamond in you – making you sparkle
  2. Fun creates an energy field that is magnetic to positive experiences
  3. Fun connects you to LIFE and other people – getting you out of isolation and feeling alone.
  4. Fun allows you to expand into joy and happiness where you are your most attractive
  5. Fun feeds and cleans your soul giving you fresh perspective

Since there is overwhelming evidence that playfulness begets peace, why not wake up and declare with great intention,
“I intend to have fun today- no matter what!” This simple act will help you stay in a positive flow so that you can stay on track with your dreams and follow your truth.

What are you waiting for? Go out and have some fun so you can say sayonara to the inner cyclones and hello to sparkling juju joy!

Let me know if this made a difference for you – leave a comment below.

6 Steps to Get on Track with Your Truth

August 28th, 2014

attachmentHave you ever gotten off track with your truth?

Or ignored that calling in your heart that wants to come out to play?

Goodness knows I have at times in my life. It’s frustrating isn’t it?  One minute you’re clear as day and the next caught up in a mire of distractions that cleverly keep you from living on purpose and in joy. I like to call these detractors Radiance Robbers. From emails to grocery shopping to people pleasing to external validation, these sweet talking bandits hi-jack your happiness.

And over time you start to feel pretty miserable because if you allow distractions and sabotaging behaviors to run your life you aren’t in integrity with who you are. You aren’t committed to YOU and when you can’t commit to yourself chances are others won’t feel compelled to commit to you either.  Mama mia what a life we create when we abandon ourselves!

One of the ways I was living out of integrity was putting my soul calling to write a book on the back burner. I had a boatload of excuses as to why the timing was never right but just like a beach ball you struggle to keep under water, those inner tugs kept popping up… insistently.

Until one day I had the courage to say “YES” and immediately all the discomfort faded away and was replaced with an excitement that I was going to do what I was here to do. That changed the trajectory of my life for the better a million times over and it will do the same for YOU.

So how do you follow the truth in your heart no matter what?Whether it’s writing a book, running a marathon, changing jobs, getting married or getting divorced – if you want to be happy, living in integrity is not a choice. You know you are out of integrity with yourself when you feel like something’s “off” or missing or flat lined or worse.

Click here to read the full article and learn 6 steps to get you on track with your truth!

This is about YOU.

August 21st, 2014
Let me interrupt your thoughts for just a moment to tell you something really important.
Don’t worry. It’s not about me.

It’s about YOU.

I’m here to remind you to put yourself first.

You’re a conscious woman. You’ve gazed down the path to your dreams.

You KNOW, with that intuitive kind of knowing, that a powerful happiness and a deeper fulfillment is out there waiting for you.

So why do you feel stuck? Worn out? Tired of pushing and pulling and struggling?

there’s an easier way to live what your soul knows – right down to the soles of your feet.

It’s about letting go of the way we’ve been taught to value other’s happiness over our own.

It’s about allowing our power to rise up and receiving what we deserve. You CAN have the love, money, health, and energy you want and need to create a balanced and amazing life.

It’s about embracing who we are as women.

Introducing Living The Feminine Way:

Successful women know how to use spirituality. 

A Free 3 hour LiveStream Training on 9/4 with six transformational hosts! 

Prema Lee Gurreri.Summer McStravick.
Nan Akasha. Sherri Nickols.
Julie Serot. Camden Hoch. 

We’ll teach you how to use your spirituality for success
in the areas of life that matter most.

Health. Money. Purpose. Love.

The three-hour live stream is FREE. All you have to do is reserve your seat!

Embracing our feminine power doesn’t mean putting other women down to get ahead. We may be told that we have to compete to survive, but when we help each other find the unique happiness we deserve -

Together, we become an unstoppable forceRise up!

That’s why I’m so inspired to be working together with five other successful, feminine, and truly brilliant women who have used their own spirituality to define what success means to them - and have gone out and made it happen.

Come spend some time with us!

Get comfy on your couch – and join our virtual living room.

Summer will empower you through the practice of Flow Dreaming to create and manifest your most amazing life beyond most women’s imaginings.

Nan’s been through big stuff. (No really, the BIG stuff.) She’ll show you how to get through it (ALL of it!) and blissfully into wealth.

Prema knows that no matter what you’re going through - it’s good for something - and can help you understand the right timing for your soul’s choices, how to trust your intuition and truly live on purpose.

Get your sparkle on with Sherri! Increase your passion and joy. Connect to your sensuality. And, yes, even fall in love!

Julie is making our virtual living room MOVE. Manage your energy through your body – and close the gap between frustrations, overwhelm, and stress to live the life of your dreams.

And Camden is filling us all with RADIANCE. Express and live fully through your gifts. Embody radiance in every area of your life - yes, even in business.

We are all finding our way and learning where to go.

And when we really listen to our soul, our energy and true calling can only pull us FORWARD.

Sometimes all it takes to get moving again is a little reminder:

Put yourself first. (And of course, a roomful of new friends can’t hurt.)

Won’t you join us?

Do you struggle with this?

August 7th, 2014

woman-in-jar-e1393300960172Resistance to change is probably the #1 reason people are unhappy in their life.

If you want something in your life…say you want to get married or divorced or move or maybe you want to switch jobs but yet when the opportunity presents itself you shy away from it because you don’t want to take the first step to get you to your goal.

I get it, just like you, I’ve been there …and that first step can be a doozy!!

Let me share a personal experience that speaks to this scenario.

At the beginning of the year I declared I wanted to be of higher service, reach more people, step up and out. I felt solid, bold and totally committed to this vision and declaration. Definitely excited, feeling it to the core of my being.

Within 2 months I was approached with the opportunity to be an international teacher/leader in a country that really needed support and assistance.

There it was, my golden chance – completely in alignment with my New Year’s declaration…and yet I hesitated. Why? As much as my body was screaming and expanding with an emphatic YES, my mind was racing with all the reasons why it probably wasn’t a good idea…at this time. Maybe later.

I looked for outs all over the place, but every time I prayed I got one consistent simple response – GO.. PRONTO!

Even with God sending me messages as big as a universal billboard I had excuses – not enough time to prepare, so many projects on my plate, fear of speaking on a stage for the first time, fear of leading a group of transformational rock stars (did I have what it takes?) and then there was the financial piece…blah, blah, blah.

Sound familiar?

Fortunately I discussed it with my coach and we figured it all out. Was I still scared and resistant – you bet! But I mustered the courage to leap and I thank God every day for giving me the strength because that experience was without a doubt one of the most significant and meaningful things I have done in my life. It added a depth of love and happiness and understanding to my being that is inexplicable – and I would have missed out totally had I stayed in resistance.

The truth is your life changes when you add something into it and most of the time you don’t want to change. Even if you say you do, it’s more comfortable hanging out with what you know – even if it’s not what you want.

Unless you are highly aware, your resistance to the elements of change itself can prevent you from manifesting the things that will make you happy in your life – the things that will make you sparkle.

So, if you are ready to conquer your resistance and you want my help

Click here to talk with me

How Can Women Trust Themselves More?

July 31st, 2014

Confident with menBombarded with anxiety and self-doubt on topics of vulnerability, intimacy and sex, many women find it difficult to trust themselves.  This can be especially true in their relationships with men.

To feel empowered and experience confidence with men, women must first develop self-trust. It’s important to know your self and your deal-breakers.

In this video I join with other YourTango Experts Charles Orlando, Sheila Paxton and Barbara Schiffman as Melanie Gorman (Senior VP of Experts) asks us what advice we would give to women looking for love.

Want to learn more? Check out this video!

(VIDEO) Tips on how NOT to lose yourself in love

July 24th, 2014

It’s become an epidemic. Women losing themselves in relationship. Why?

Because relationships are demanding. Most women are taught to multi-task and filling the role of wife and/or mother, daughter, caregiver, sister, friend can be an all-consuming job.
Be honest, in satisfying the wants and needs of your loved ones, have you lost yourself?
Losing yourself is detrimental not only to your own fulfillment but can be toxic to your relationship as well because when you lose yourself, your partner will lose interest and respect. Mama mia!

Along those lines, I recently sent out a survey (many thanks to those of you who completed it!) and here is the #1 thing you all overwhelmingly said you wanted:

* A loving trusting relationship. Fantastic! But here’s the deal – in order to have a loving trusting relationship you need to FIRST have one with yourself!

Here’s the #1 challenge you shared:

*To find the right man…not surprising because you’ve got to BE the RIGHT woman to attract or recognize the right man.

What does that mean? Simply, that you love yourself, trust your decisions and choices and know yourself.

The truth is, staying connected to your gorgeous sparkle or “fun-ESS-ence” as my new SPARKLE 2 gals describe it, needs to become a daily habit.

Don’t lose yourself in love,  watch this video.

P.S. - I have a few spots left in our SPARKLE 2 program.  If you want my help finding your “fun-ESS-ence, and making your happiness this year a prioritybook time now to speak with me.