Three Ways to Seduce
Body language at it’s core is the language of seduction.
It’s a powerful and subtle way of expressing and getting what you desire.
So why not take control of your own secret signals as a way
to exude confidence, tease with playfulness and just plain dazzle anyone you
The beauty of body language is that you can reveal so much about
yourself without ever saying a word.
Here are a few things you can do to create a strong
connection with a man:
What Do Your Hands Say?
In the 1st of our 7 flirty body language series we will be looking at hand signals -primarily the palm. Interestingly both men and women are unconsciously hip to the physical
appearance of hands, fingers, wrists, as well as their expressive shapes and
Whether sensational and single or magnificent and married a palm-up
gesture is far more friendly than a palm-down cue. Universally a palm-up gesture
says, “I am friendly.” It captivates and charms and disarms when someone may
not be sure of your intentions.
In comparison, the palm-down is aggressive and not appropriate
in the dating stage as it makes your ideas and opinions come across too strong.
Even in an established relationship it will create tension. This can be a good
How’s your flirt chat? Are you communicating your fabulous
femininity with a sense of fun and fervor? If you want to live with more pleasure
do yourself a favor and put your flirt power into high gear.
Men are visual so
you’ll need to get into their “eye-dar” by flashing a smile, batting an eye,
showing some skin! Whether you are single or married reconnect with
this lost art and feel your femininity explode. This purely pleasurable activity will invite him into your space and make him feel safe and excited at the same time.
You don’t need to be body beautiful or jaw dropping gorgeous to get a
man’s attention – you just have to exude confidence, playfulness and a sense of
sensuality. My good friend, Patty Contenta, teaches this beautifully – the ” art of sensuality.” I was speaking with one of her clients yesterday and she was telling me how “the dance move” has got men flocking to her in droves – like bees to honey!
There are so many reasons to engage in some flirty fun – so why
wait? Come down with a case of flirt fever today!
The second in our series of body language, Lori Robinson gives some tips on how to seduce using hand to mouth gestures. Tune in you gorgeous gals!
What does your body language say about you?
Did you know you can either attract or repel with your body movements? Yes we are always sending messages, consciously and unconsciously with our body language. The trick is to know how to use it to your advantage. And this is so important whether you are wanting a relationship or IN a relationship.
So, together with one of my dearest gal pals, Lori Robinson, image & wardrobe consultant who has not only dressed some of Hollywood’s most famous faces but is a 4 time emmy nominated costume designer we have created a series of video’s focusing on one body part at a time.
In the first of our series we’ll reveal what the “eyes” express – what vibes are you sending out with every look that you give?
Would love your comments after you watch the video – simply go below and click comments and share your “eye” language “aha’s”…
light goes out but is blown again into flame by an encounter with another human
being. Each of us owes the deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this
Did you know that flirting is a woman’s way to the life source? So says Mama Gena in her book Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts. She goes on to say that women are born to flirt – it’s in our DNA and that flirting eases communication, melts arguments and makes whatever you wish for come to you more smoothly. It is a simple and fun way to be at your most powerful.
So, do you have fun with flirting? I never was much of a flirt myself, but that all changed after my divorce…I spread my wings a bit…I’Il share my experience with you and hope that you will take a few minutes to share yours with me…
It started with a man I like to call my very own “Mr. Big.” You know the type – the guy
that gives you the “tingles” all over. He’s strong, handsome and a little
Licking my wounds after my relationship of 13 years crumbled
THIS was exciting. But I confess, I had no idea how to do the dating scene…flirt,
So I started asking myself, “How can I flirt in a fresh and
fun way? And the perfect opportunity presented – friends of mine were
sponsoring a treasure hunt at a museum in L.A. and my gal pal trainer suggested
I invite him.
But I knew I couldn’t send my “Mr. Big” the basic boring
invitation – oh no, it would have to be revised with an interesting
presentation full of mystery and intrigue. Something tempting that would entice
him out of his jam-packed cocooned life.
Holding that desire and intention I almost instantly
received the most divinely inspired vision, and as I put this surprise invitation
together I was filled with total bliss. I involved a few of my fab friends and
together we had a ball creating an incredibly fun and flirty invite.
I sent it off with a kiss and a prayer and thus began one of
the most important relationships of my life…
Having the courage to step outside of my comfort zone
brought three wonderful things to my life:
- Sparked a new romance
- Taught me a lot about myself and the value of stretching outside my comfort zone
- Bonding with my friends thru creative collaboration and hilarious laughter
Have you engaged in a flirtatious
escapade you would like to share? I would love to hear your story! Me and my
rockin’ romance team will be reading them all and will choose one to post in
March AND I am looking for some flirty adventures to put in my book with your consent of course. So please click on the comment link below to write and reveal!!